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By Elizabeth Black

So you have heard about the G-spot and you want to find yours? Where to begin? Can you be sure to even have one? The G-spot is that little spongy knot of joy two inches inside your vagina, on the vaginal wall. Some women say they ejaculate when their partners play with their G-spots. They spurt like fountains, all over the bed linens and all over their partners. The G-spot was discovered in 1950 by German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg. Gräfenberg published a paper in which he named the area the G-spot, after his last name. His findings were immediately questioned by gynecologists, and to this day there is much debate about its existence. Additional research on the G-spot has been taken since 1981, but there is still much argument over its existence, its nature, and its location. The G-spot is not actually a spot within the vagina. The urethral sponge contains erectile tissue and sensitive nerve endings that react to manual stimulation, and it is thought by many to be the fabled G-spot. Finding your G-spot is very easy. First, insert a curved finger (or two) inside your vagina and curve your fingers towards your belly. Move them in a “come hither” motion. Note the pressure, especially if it feels more intense in one area than in others. If your fingers are too short to locate your G-spot, or if you simply can’t find it, use a G-spot sex toy which is designed to home in on your G-spot immediately. With your fingers, as you become more turned on, you’ll notice a different texture on your G-spot than on other areas of your vaginal wall. You’ll also feel intense and pleasurable sensations as you press against that spot. Note the difference in texture of that spot – the G-spot may feel somewhat bumpy and not as smooth as other areas of your vagina. As you massage, you’ll feel a strong urge to urinate. Don’t stop! That urge means you’re on the right track. You’ll get so aroused you’ll start singing Wagner’s “Ride of the Valkyries”.

If you’d prefer to find your G-spot with a vibrator, you have the pick of many curved vibrators that are designed to find that little bundle of bliss. Erotic Diva carries many varieties of G-spot vibrators and you’re bound to find one or more that appeal to you. To use a G-spot vibrator, first apply a little lube to the tip to ensure easy entry. Set the vibrations to a comfortable speed and intensity, and insert the vibe with the curved tip facing your belly. Once inside, the vibrator will home in on your G-spot immediately, and you will soon feel intense excitement as the vibrator stimulates your G-spot. As the vibrator does all the work while you lie back and enjoy the arousal, you will soon feel an urge to urinate. Don’t give in to this urge. Continue stimulating your G-spot with the vibrator because that sensation means you are aroused and about to have a G-spot orgasm. G-spot vibrators may be used alone or share one with your partner. Ideal as foreplay sex toys, G-spot vibrators will get you aroused quickly and you will enjoy every quaking moment of stimulation. Plus your partner will love seeing you so turned on. All of Erotic Diva’s G-spot vibrators are made from pliable, soft, premium grade materials like rubber, silicone, and jelly. And the prices can’t be beat!

Some women ejaculate when they come with G-spot manipulation. While some have a little shower – the average ejaculate is about a teaspoon – others drown their sheets and even their partners in fluid. Not all women can ejaculate but those that do often spurt a fountain of fluid as they come. Keep stimulating your G-spot until you feel your vaginal muscles tighten intensely, which is the sign that you are about to climax. Whatever you do – don’t stop moving your vibrator! Many women who ejaculate do so after several orgasms and they ejaculate after extreme arousal and direct G-spot manipulation and clit stimulation for a very long period of time, say having multiple orgasms for fifteen minutes and about a half hour’s worth of intense G-spot and clit massage. If you are one of the women who can ejaculate, make your chances for spurting fluid even more probable by regularly exercising your pelvic floor muscles, since women with very strong PC muscles are more likely to ejaculate.

So are you sold on enjoying your G-spot? You can find many G-spot sex toys here at Erotic Diva and while you’re at it, try out our beads and bullets category for ben wa balls so that you may strengthen your pelvic floor.

Strong PC muscles lead to more intense G-spot orgasms – and possibly ejaculation! What’s not to love?

It’s true that your sex life can become monotonous and boring if you keep doing the same thing over and over. The good news is that there are a lot of resources to help you expand your sexual repertoire. Even lesbian sex life in not an exception when it comes to routines. Here comes the role of lesbian sex toys, which could be helpful spicing up your relationship and makes thing work better than ever. Lesbian sex encompasses many sexual activities, including oral sex, dry humping (frottage), vaginal or anal intercourse, mutual masturbation, and fisting.

Many lesbians have discovered the pleasures of strap-on sex. Strap ons are dildos designed to be worn in a harness, so that you can fuck your partner without having to hold the dildo in place. Strap-on dildosare characterized by a flared base, which secures the dildo in the harness and prevents it from popping through during rigorous sexual play! Harnesses come in array of styles and are fully adjustable, so you can get a secure fit, regardless of your body type.

Dildos, many made of premium silicone, are available in styles and colors to suit any desire, so whether you’re craving a curved toy for G-spot play or a graduated toy for anal play, you can rig up a strap-on dildo that’ll get the job done.

While anal beads will give the perfect anal penetration, anal probes can come handy to start a sex encounter.

Here are also some things to avoid if you want to keep your sex life alive and vibrant:

1. Get too clingy

Togetherness is good, but one pattern lesbian couples often fall into is spending too much time together. There’s an old saying “absence makes the heart grow fonder!” Take time away from each other and develop your own interests. Give her reasons to continually find you stimulating.

2. Get too distant.

While some time away is good, don’t go overboard and get too distant. Be sure to make time for each other at least once a week. Plan date nights. Beware of falling into the routine of coming home, turning on the TV or computer and zoning out from each other.

3. Stop Having Sex

Okay, this might sound obvious, but if you don’t ever have sex, you’re not going to have a sex life. Make sex dates. Say yes to sex, even if you’re tired, have a headache or don’t feel in the mood from time to time. You might surprise yourself at how quickly you get in the mood or how the pleasure of that orgasm suddenly makes your headache go away!

4. Let body image issues get in the way

You may have put on a few pounds, grown a few grey hairs, added some wrinkles and aren’t feeling as sexy as you once did when you were younger. People can and do have healthy sex lives no matter their size, age or physical ability.

5. Predictable routine.

Routines are good for some thing, like getting your children ready for school and synchronized swimming, but in the bedroom a routine can make your sex life boring. Don’t’ be afraid to try new positions, new activities, new toys, new dirty talk, erotica or fantasies.

6. Contract a disease.

Although lesbians are at risk for sexually transmitted diseases like herpes, HPV and HIV, there seems to be less attention paid by lesbians to safer sex than in the gay male and heterosexual communities. A STD can not only kill your sex life, it can kill you. Protect yourself!

like many women:

• Some lesbians have unsafe sex with men
• Some lesbians inject drugs and share needles
• Some lesbian sexual practices are risky.
• Lesbians wanting to get pregnant face decisions about semen donors

Sexy card games are some of the easiest to play, because all you need is a deck of cards and some special rules!

If you are already a card player, or were when you were a kid, then all you have to do is take those games that you are familiar with, add some new sexy rules, favors, penalties, etc, and Voila! You have an original sexy card game.

Rummy, Crazy Eights, Skip Bo!, Poker and Whist are just some of the games that you can re-create.

Creating your own sexy card games is fun and will give you a sense of accomplishment. Imagine playing a fun and sexy game – that you created yourself!

Even better, get your partner to help you make up the rules. Create it together, then play it together.

Sexy favors and treats can be whatever you want them to be for your sexy card games. What do you want your partner to do to you? What do you want to do to them? What do you want to do WITH them?

Even the penalties can be fun. You can play strip games, where the loser has to remove an item of clothing. Or perhaps you want them to have to do something to or for the winner. Why not incorporate a set of sex dice, and the winner gets to roll them to find out what the loser gets to do to them!

Here are some sexy card games based on some common games for you, if you don’t feel like creating your own or if you want to get ideas for your own:

Sexy Eights:

Based on the game, Crazy Eights – but you get sexy favors when you are able to play an 8 instead!

Sexy Gin Rummy:

Basically the same as Gin Rummy, but with the opportunity to win a sexy favor at the end of each round, and a bigger fantasy at the end of the game!

Whist Me a Wish:

Based on German Whist, this game combines the element of winning tricks with the chance of a draw at the end of the game. The more sexy wishes you have in the pool, the better your chances of drawing one of the ones you want…

Dirty-Talking Spades:

Based on Two Handed Spades or Honeymoon Spades, this is another game that involves taking tricks – and talking dirty! While no sexy treat is involved for the winner, just see if you can finish this game without a sexy romp!

Kissing Royals:

Based on “Slap Jack”, this game is a good foreplay game with lots of fun kissing.

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1) NOT KISSING FIRST

Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you’re paying by the hour and trying to get your money’s worth by cutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the Ultimate form of foreplay.

2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR

Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there’s a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you’re trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts.

3) NOT SHAVING

You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner’s face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, it’s not passion, it’s avoidance.

4) SQUEEZING her breast

Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them.

5) BITING HER NIPPLES

Why do men fasten onto a woman’s nipples, then! clamp down like they’re trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can’t stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. Pretending they’re a dogie toy isn’t.

6) TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES

Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and thumb like you’re trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.

7) IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY

A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breast-ville East and West, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are vast areas of her body which you’ve ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention.

GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED

Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you’re going to be that aggressive, just ask her! to take the damn things off.

9) LEAVING HER A LITTLE PRESENT

Condom disposal is the man’s responsibility. You wore it, you store it.

10) ATTACKING THE vagina

Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along side of the vagina.

11) STOPPING FOR A BREAK

Women, unlike men, don’t pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she’s not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.

12) UNDRESSING HER AWKWARDLY

Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid’s toy.

13) GIVING HER A WEDGIE DURING FOREPLAY

Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.

14) BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA

Although most men can find the vagina without ma! ps, they still believe that the vagina is where it’s all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you’re trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is OK in principle, but if you’re not careful, it can hurt – so don’t get carried away. It’s best to pay more attention to her vagina and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it.

15) MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY

You’re attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are OK; elbows and knees are not.

16) UNDRESSING PREMATURELY

Don’t force the issue by stripping before she’s at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if it’s just undoing a couple of buttons.

17) TAKING YOUR PANTS OFF FIRST

A man in socks and underpants is a at his worst. Lose the socks first.

18) GOING TOO FAST

When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool -she’ll soon feel like an assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly, with clean, straight, regular thrusts.

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